Thursday, 24 July 2014

Race, Racism and Mental Health: A Look At #OITNB's Suzanne "Crazy Eyes" Warren


I'm pretty convinced Suzanne Warren's mother is racist. Unintentionally so, but to detrimental effect.

As you know, I was very excited for the Season Two premiere of Netflix's Orange Is The New Black. I stayed up for hours and watched three straight episodes before my body gave in to fatigue and I went to bed. I spent the rest of the weekend inhaling the new stories that these women had to tell us, and I was grateful to be able to immerse myself in their lives once more. 

There were more than a few surprises when it came to the backstories that were explored this season most notably Morello, Poussey and Miss Rosa, in my opinion. But the backstory that stood out to me most was Suzanne's. In the second season's third episode, Hugs Can Be Deceiving, we get a glimpse into the difficulties Suzanne faced growing up as an adopted black child in a white family, who while clearly loving and protective of her, remained stubbornly blind to her mental health needs. 

So why do I think Suzanne's mother is racist? It's a bit difficult for me to articulate, so I'll defer to this completely out of context quote from Bitch Flicks about a young black female character on the Disney channel show Jessie:
"The worst part about her character to me is not just the stereotypes, but the fact that she is exhibiting urban Black stereotypes despite never having been a part of urban Black society. She lives in an Upper East Side penthouse and was born in Uganda. It is reminiscent of early 20th century ideas: things like social darwinism. These characteristics of Zuri exist in her genetics just because of the color of her skin."
Emphasis mine. Just let that percolate for a bit while I get into this next bit.

We the audience have had two seasons to get to know Suzanne, but even from the very beginning when she doggedly pursued Piper and nicknamed her Dandelion, it was clear that she suffered from some form of mental disorder. While demonstrably very intelligent (can you quote Shakespeare from memory?) Suzanne is inappropriately sexually aggressive, lacks social boundaries, and demonstrates difficulty understanding interpersonal cues. That she is "different" is plainly obvious to the casual observer.

And yet. 

In Hugs Can Deceiving we see Suzanne's mother self-righteously accuse another mother of racism for not wanting Suzanne to attend her child's sleepover in a flashback scene. The sleepover is for her 6-year-old. Suzanne is 10. The scene rubbed the wrong way for a lot of reasons. 

Firstly, a difficult child is a difficult child. It is not irrational for a parent (who will also be supervising several other small children, mind you) to not want to have to deal with a difficult child. Add that to the fact that it is rude as hell to arrive with an extra child to a party they weren't invited to, much less a child who is of an inappropriate age. Remove Suzanne's mental health issues, and her mother is still being unforgivably impolite.

But in context, I read that scene as being fairly clear that this mother did not want Suzanne around because she was "weird." She did not want to deal with an eccentric child. For Suzanne's mother to immediately conflate that hesitance to engage with racism troubles me, because I think it says more about her attitudes towards her own daughter than it does about mom #2's prejudices. 

I did not interpret mom #2's reaction as stemming from racism, though admittedly that is only my personal reaction. Suzanne's mom's response, to me demonstrated that in her mind, she had conflated Suzanne's "eccentricities" with her blackness. As a child who clearly wasn't getting the help she needed, Suzanne likely would have been difficult to manage even for someone with the best of intentions, let alone an unwilling parent. It is the most obvious reason for why she experienced so much alienation growing up. But her mother didn't say "Is it because she's weird?", which to me, would have been the obvious assumption. Instead she said "Is it because she's black?"

Let's go back to Jessie for a moment:
"These characteristics of Zuri exist in her genetics just because of the color of her skin."
I genuinely think that this is the way Suzanne's mother saw her; as a black body from whom difficulties were to be expected and endured. 

Throughout the rest of the episode we saw how painfully white Suzanne's world was growing up, including a telling scene where a very young Suzanne throws a tantrum in the hospital that her parents cannot handle. It takes the black nurse; the woman who looks like her; to comfort her and calm her down. Suzanne's parents never seem to have made an effort to embrace and explore her blackness, but rather try to ignore it, in a misguided effort to be colour blind. It's in this way that I think Suzanne's mother saw her difficult behaviour not as an indication of a disease that she could have received help for, but as an indelible part of her identity, specific to her blackness. 

In other words, black people are just "like that" and therefore there was nothing to be done. Because of this, her parent never made the effort to get her the mental health care that she so desperately needed, and as we know, she's ended up in jail. 

It is telling that even having grown up in an apparently well-off white family with economic means, the black child was not afforded access to the resources she needed in order to grow up in a well-adjusted manner. It should be noted, that we still don't know exactly what landed Suzanne in jail, nor do we know if she has an official diagnosis. The only indication that she receives treatment of any kind is a season one scene where she explains to Piper how difficult it is to be held is the prison's psych ward.

I think that Mrs. Warren's belief that Suzanne simply had a propensity for misbehavior or violence because of her blackness directly contributed to her current situation and it upsets me to think that even though Suzanne presumably had a more privileged background than most, she was still allowed to slip through the cracks. This becomes even more irksome as the season unfolds and we see how desperate Suzanne is for love and empathy, leading her to be completely entranced by the likes of Vee, who zeroes in on her need to be treated like a capable person worthy of admiration and respect, and then exploits her.

I'm sure I haven't properly explained myself, but the tl;dr is that from what we've seen so far, I think that Suzanne didn't get the help she needed because her family thought her "eccentricities" were an indelible part of her blackness and therefore did not try to get her help. What do you think? How did you read the scene and how do you think Suzanne's family did or didn't contribute to her current situation?

5 comments:

  1. So sad my post deleted when I signed into Disqus! Anyhow -- I think you have made your case here and I observed many of the same things you did. I don't know that racist is the appropriate term for this case. I do think that Suzanne's mother my have been enculturated with supremascist attitudes and priveledge. Clearly her ignorance as a guardian has had a deleterious effect in her daughter. But, as you mentioned, I do sense that her desire to love, care for and protect the child is genuine. (Even to the point of risking her own priveledge with her rudeness!) Perhaps it is semantics -- but I tend to think of racist as much more intentional, sinister and oppressive. Not that this character is real, but in general I think it wise to be careful with charged language that could alienate potential allies. Had she adopted Suzanne to be "on trend" by having a black child, or treated her black child worse than her white one I would consider her racist and be willing to call it. If someone has learned wrong information or beliefs, but is open to change does that make them racist?

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  2. My thought wasn't that she was a racist mother, but that she would rather not admit to herself that Suzanne had issues, so she deflects it as "everyone else has a problem because she is black". Not right, not wrong, just not exactly the same as the way you read it. But hey, to each his own. We see from where we stand. I look at the whole thing from a mental health perspective, so my lens tends to see both Suzanne and the mother in the same way.

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  3. I think I saw it the same way as you, but I understand the authors perspective. I think we need more information into the crime she committed to really give the full picture.

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  4. I think it is racism in the sense of an inferred superiority in the mother's mind. definitely a misguided attempt to be colour blind. However, I don't think it's completely a conflation of blackness with weirdness on Mrs. Warren's part (although that is part of it-- Suzanne is soothed by the Black nurse who actually tries to relate to her and can do her hair) I read it more as a struggle that parents of mentally ill children have in general: the "not MY daughter" syndrome. I think it's both of those things combined with the her need to prove herself a good mother. The moment when suzanne is asked to sing at graduation reminds me of the movie "The kids are all right" where the daughter basically calls the mom out for displaying her as a poster child for lesbian parents. (If you haven't seen it it's pretty interesting.) In both cases, the parents are using their child as a middle finger to the skeptics, which is not to say they don't love their children. PS also note that Suzanne's hair is obviously very special to her and her mother for the LIFE of her cannot see why. Shows her feelings of ethnic superiority and a desperate need to assimilate her child.

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  5. Let me preface - Suzanne clearly has unaddressed, or under addressed mental issues, this much is obvious. Whether her parents addressed THIS in an appropriate manner is obviously up for debate - I mean she graduated, and she is clearly quite intelligent, but obviously now she's in prison. I completely appreciate how a racial divide could aggravate these issues further.

    However I think this episode presents a very harmful portrayal of adoptive parents of children of other races- especially the scene in the hospital.

    Why is it that when two parents are just concerned with the well being of their newborn, (that is to say BORN MERE MINUTES before that scene) in the hands of an unpredictable 5 year old, resulting their daughter throws a hissy fit, they're made out to be poor parents who ignore the needs of their own daughter, thereby necessitating a black mother figure to swoop in to handle THEIR child. Not only this, but the nurse goes on to start touching their child and her hair without permission? Because her white adoptive parents didn't style it "right"? Why is it that this lady - who I presume Suzanne has NEVER met- somehow has magical powers over Suzanne's behaviour that her parents seemingly do not, and apparently a better grasp of her needs? Simply because they both happen to share a skin colour? This brings to mind your points on social darwinism.

    Does that mean if you're asian, you just inherently have insight into the lives of every single asian child on the planet? You can just walk around talking to problematic asian children and touching them without the permission of their parents?

    Also, I'm sorry, but I fail to see what was WRONG with Suzanne's natural hair and why she NEEDED somebody to style it for her.

    The whole message sent here really confuses me. Is the message that black children NEED black parents to live a good life? Does this mentality go both ways? Could a black family not provide a proper, well adjusted home for a white child? Why not? Does it go for all races? Should we adopt the Lorna mentality of "it's just tribal"?

    Not only this, but I also don't like that this attitude reduces the experience of every black person to the same shared identity, instead of a varied group of individual cultures, backgrounds, religions, and attitudes. If you're black and I'm black, we're just supposed to understand everything about each other?

    Maybe her parents messed up, and yes, this is just ONE example of a cross-racial adoptive family. At the same time with the very, very, VERY minimal representation of cross-racial adoptive families in media, it's incredibly disappointing for this one infrequent example to be portrayed in such a negative manner, on a show that is so frequently celebrated for its forward thinking attitudes.

    But hey, maybe I'm just taking it too personally.
    Sorry for invading your blog. Seemed like a good, frank open discussion on a topic I didn't see getting much buzz online.

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